The Most Important Success Tip: Stop Lying Down with Dogs, Already
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I remember hearing factoid bk yr income destined be average people spend time with.
At time, bothered me. Outside family, hanging wh se folks weren’t exactly rolling dough. me, factoid said:
- Dude, you’re poor;
- Dude, out, you’re he ditch friends phony rich people, lame; and
- Dude, that, social circle probably won’t “dude” all.
But worse.
Your weight destined average fe people you’re ad most. habits (smoking, drinking, etc.) correlate te folks. Yr level marital satisfaction, outside friendship, ability play 1990s video game Street Fighter? tied se degree peers.
I trouble
The is, I’m chameleon. he strong internal compass, pick external, cosmetic ts people quickly, probably I’m pretty gd building rapport.
I’ll eat dinner Canadians pick tr vocal inflections. I’ll Irish roommate weekend retreat develop Guinness habit.
So lot broke friends, wt forecast income?
The bad news factoid that, wt tell, totally true. associate with, talk with, tk at interactions wh losers, guess you’re become?
The familiar saying tt If lie dn dogs, you’re gonna fleas.
The gd news
But news tt don’t ditch yr buddies suck Mr. Mrs. Howell Gilligan’s Island.
And ultra news tt aspire associate “successful” people instead narrowing focus “rich” people. lot successful people “Dude,” like, TIME.
Who’s pack?
The truth humans pack animals, acceptance love hard-wired deep brains. People people tt resemble, getting acceptance love at means practicing degree — lt subconscious level — conformity.
If skip night bar wk book, you’ll lose se love. you’re eating apple buddies eating Buffalo wings, they’re gg goof you.
It’s question shrug convince yf doesn’t mean anything. Ts primal stuff, wl wk core time.
So yeah, successful yr current gp bunch do-nothings, yr bt chance mg yr life comes changing peers.
I looks
I kw looks I’m saying throw people life forever — ignore Cousin Cletus, love current job, car, teeth.
I feels phony. kw reading ts resisting notion, thinking tt you’ll stand-up person staying yr current peer simply rising ae tr expectations.
I my bursting wh counter-examples — stories people came out of the ghetto made it big.
So address that, borrow Tony Robbins.
Love yr family friends. choose peer group.
Tony’s modification factoid is, opinion, money. Instead talking hang with, Tony’s version rule is:
Most people’s lives direct reflection expectations tr peer group.
Tony’s definition peer se respect, we approval vy you. And, you’re paying close attention, you’ll note ts definition ng wh actually around day.
You choose peers fm — regardless wr spend time wh — lg it’s their expectations you’re as trying meet.
You he dysfunctional relatives sloppy friends, choose hold tm peers. (But careful, it’s hard spend lot time se accidentally seek approval.)
You choose peers fm ag people don’t actually know
See, peers aren’t Facebook friends. Peers don’t necessarily accept peer request.
Going Tony Robbins, Tony sd tt hold mental mastermind meetings people admired most. people mentions “meeting with” regularly activist natural healing guru Norman Cousins.
So, be Cousins (in Tony’s active imagination) peer, Tony himself, “What wd Norman this?” wn Tony “met” group, “mental Norman” tell thought.
I’m saying he New-Age self-helpy. I’m jt saying don’t limit yf peers yr immediate social circle.
Who people respect most? wh intention gaining their approval instead Cousin Cletus’s?
Supercharging peer relationships
In ideal world, te dig Albert Einstein he cup coffee wh regularly chat at goals desires. Albert’s dead, real-life interaction actually somewhat uninspiring.
But age internet, plenty accessible live peer candidates there, jt clicks away.
So compromise hanging Cousin Cletus creating wacky mental mastermind groups, cd try following:
- Find blogs, forums, online social communities filled wh people expectations you’d le meet, hang there.
- Find coach mentor. Paying coaching gt care meet coach’s expectations.
- Work pushes you. people interact wh constantly don’t kw do, forces stretch.
- Read material tt exemplifies life you’d live.
- Join membership site surrounds wh mentors solid peers.
- Compete. friendly competition wh buddy earn money. He’s bn handing ass years, I’m finally surpassing him.
If awhile, funny wl happen. You’ll fe people actually interact wl yr bt peers, ge take.
And we you’ll sl Cousin Cletus awesome, you’ll ly fd you’re ls hanging 24/7, regardless resist sloth plentiful nachos.
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